Hrmph! a grumble of discontentedness.
C finally texted me yesterday afternoon to tell me that he had been ‘caving’ in the Yorkshire dales and had decided that he wanted to ’switch off the world for a while’.
He called yesterday evening and I told him that I had been concerned for his welfare, (given that he has told me that he is also bipolar although undiagnosed, however I didn’t mention that), and asked him how he would feel had I done the same thing……his response ‘very sorry, hadn’t thought of it’.
Bet he had, I think it was a case of a man ‘going into his cave’ like they mention in the book Men are from Mars, Women are from Venus. Anyway, issue over, he then mentioned again that he wanted me to come to his place for the weekend. I told him that I would have to let him know. He seemed disheartened, good, I thought, he has to know that I am not going to just jump whenever he says so. Also, given the fact that he intends to get back home today ( Friday) and ‘do some work’. What he really means is that he will be out drinking with his mate Andy. He really must think I am dumb.
Anyway, in other news I have been offered a 2 bedroom flat, and am going to view it on Sunday with my friend Alex. I am hoping to persuade Alex to move in with me, as a sort of ploy. Firstly, it will probably show C that I am a force to be reckoned with, and will make my own decisions, and secondly I suspect that C wants to move in with me, and I am not ready for that……no way!
I say that because he has left his toothbrush and deodorant in prominant display in my bathroom, just like a cat who sprays their scent somewhere. A few days ago I asked him if he realised his toothbrush was at my place and he said ‘ oh, yeah, I have another one here with me’. I teased him and called him a slut and asked him where else he left his toothbrushes…….he did snigger, eventually.
Am starting to wonder if he has a drink problem, and I am certainly NOT going to get involved with him if that is the case.
Anyway, more news on Monday
